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*FOURTH ISSUE*

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            Three new writers  -- Bettina Bradbury, Elizabeth Swain and Lucille Santiago -- join regulars Leslie Rutkin and Lynda Myles  for this issue. Purely by coincidence, all three have written stories about remarkable  grandmothers who continue to have  a profound influence on their lives.

            Bettina Bradbury tells of the indomitable Anna McClure, her maternal grandmother, one of nine children from an impoverished  mining family in Colorado.  Elizabeth Swain conjures  long-ago  holidays she spent as a child in the English countryside with  her lovably eccentric  grandparents.  Lucille Santiago, age 16, writes movingly and humorously about  being raised by her grandma. In a separate piece she describes her  perfect  last visit with her troubled mother.


                  Leslie Rutkin relates the story  of her courtship and early years of marriage through a series of vignettes about the couple's yearly pilgrimage to  Tanglewood.   And Lynda Myles shares a different kind of adventure with her daughter and a new friend, both breast cancer patients.

As usual, you can read the first paragraph of each story and click on "continue" to read the rest.  Enjoy! (And if you feel like it, leave a message in the guest book to let us know you've been here.)
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SEIJI OZAWA IS OLD

by Leslie Rutkin

            Seiji Ozawa is old.  I just saw his photo in the times and I was shocked.  His face is lined and his mop of hair, now gray, is sparse.  I had no idea that he had aged along with the rest of us.  Seiji Ozawa was the first orchestra conductor that I felt a kinship with.  Yes there was Lenny Bernstein, but unfortunately I never saw him conduct in person.  Ozawa was always there, every summer, when Matthew and I went to Tanglewood in the Berkshire mountains of Massachusetts.  He was raven haired and slim with amazing energy; he swooped, he cajoled, he beckoned with a firm baton. Now he is pulling out of concerts because of a chronic bad back problem.  Perhaps he still has the energy of youth.  But he looks tired in the newspaper photo...

Continued...

 


MY  ENGLISH  GRANDPARENTS 

by Elizabeth Swain

Leicester Nana, so named as that was where she lived in the East Midlands of England, was my father’s mother. His father had died when he was eight and Nana now lived with a daughter, Auntie Kathleen. When I visited I had to be on my best behavior.  There were rules to be observed and manners were very important. But I was spoiled too...

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MY GRANDMA -

BORN IN SEPIA... DIED IN LIVINCOLOR

by Bettina Bradbury



"The past is a foreign country. They do things differently there."
-- L.P. Hartley

        "Grow up and be somebody." My grandma's mantra. Life was a serious matter. The proof is revealed in a stark, sepia-toned photo of my grandma taken with her sisters circa 1912. The girls are posed before a shutterbox camera, facing the photographer, who in those days would have been holding aloft a tray filled with some kind of fiery powder, and at the same time, coaxing them to "smile for the birdie.” The sisters ranged from 13 to 19 in age, and smiling was not the fashion. Even with the Houdini powder, the exposure must take almost a minute. Time enough for the sisters to reflect on how hard life in this sepia-colored world is for them and their family. For all the families they know...

Continued...

TWO by Lucille Santiago
                  

                         A VISIT WITH MMOTHER                         

                          

          I didn’t grow up living with my mother, so the times I spent with her, whether they were good or bad, meant a lot to me. There’s something you have to understand about my mother – there was no in between with her. There was either good or bad, and you weren’t always sure what you were going to get. Because of this, the time between our visits varied.  It had been about three weeks since I had last seen her...                       
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 Life with Grandma
  

          Sometimes the most important people in our lives are the people that may not always be the easiest to be in a relationship with. For me that person is my grandma. My grandmother isn’t like most people’s grandparents. She’s my guardian, and without her I’m not sure where I would be today. She doesn’t have the luxury of being a grandmother who can spoil me and indulge me and then leave the hard part of raising me to my parents – she’s got me 24/7...
                                                                                                                                                 Continued...

 

ININ PRAISE OF YES

by Lynda Myles



I ran a hot bath on a Sunday morning and poured in the bubbles, climbed in and prepared to relax and read. The phone rang. Never far from instant communication, I had a cordless nearby, so I answered from the tub. It was my daughter, Hallie, asking what my plans were for the next morning. We were meeting with her oncologist at four p.m., and until I left for that appointment, my plan was to pay bills, wrestle with my health insurance company on the phone, do some writing, and if there was time, go to the gym. I asked, Why, what’s up?  If I were free she thought I might want to accompany her to a new friend’s brain scan. But if I wasn’t free, that was no problem.  I took a moment to absorb this invitation to a brain scan...

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